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The Source of Growth And Improvement

 You are the You-niverse-

the You-niverse is only made up of "You",

and that's all you'll ever find in your particular You-niverse...is you -

your expression of the Infinite.

 

If you wish to call it God,

if you wish to call it Goddess,

if you wish to call it All That Is, as we do, it does not matter,

because All That Is doesn't care what you call It,

because All That Is knows that anything you could think of

is a name that's already contained within All That Is,

and It will accept it as Its own name - because everything is within "all that is",

that's why it's called "All That Is"!

Because there's nothing outside,

if it were it would be: "All That Is Plus What's Outside",

but All That Is is exactly as it sounds - it is 'ALL THAT IS'

and there isn't anything else because, what IS simply IS.

 

The idea therefore, is to understand,

that what you will always discover, will simply be,

All That Is expressing Itself

through the unique portion of All That Is that you were created to be.

Remember the Second Law: "The One is All, the All are One"

Every component of the All That Is - all of you - all of us,

every individuated being, every individuated concept,

is the 'Whole' expressing itself as a part.

 

Important point - I'll rewind that and repeat it,

because we understand that you have been trained to think segregationally,

and sometimes individuals on your planet may miss the point,

all of you are - yes, a part of the Whole,

but as a part of the Whole,

you are the Whole expressing Itself as "a part of the Whole".

Big difference than just thinking of yourself

as a part of the Whole without the other side.

You have to understand yourself holigraphically,

it is this AND that - not this OR that.

Anything you can imagine is this AND that,

it is all inclusive - you have to have both sides,

the heads and the tails - in order to have a coin,

without one side you don't have a coin.

So, you are the part AND, you are the Whole,

you are both one and the same, but expressing the Whole as a part.

The idea, therefore, is to understand yourself this way,

and express yourself more holistically,

and you will understand how to experience more of the Whole.

You will get, in a sense, more of an expanded experience

when you express yourself as if you are more of the Whole.

The idea being that there is a "Whole Picture"

that you might liken unto a large puzzle that has a picture on it,

as we know many of you like to play with these on your planet,

you understand that the puzzle is made up of

many small, individual, differently shaped pieces.

Now, we have observed on your planet,

That, oh, for the course of say…oh,

several thousand of your years of time,

you have been trained to try and be a shape that you are not,

to try and be this shape, to try and be that shape,

"Fit here - fit there - come here - belong this way,

do this - do that - do not be yourself,

that won't work - stop dreaming - stop daydreaming,

stop being yourself - that doesn't fit in,

be who we say you need to be".

And so now you've become experts at being someone other than yourself.

The idea being, therefore, is that when you do that,

you are no longer the shape that you were originally made in.

If you are no longer, as a puzzle piece,

the shape that fits in the Whole you were originally made for,

then you cannot support the creation of the 'Whole Picture',

because you no longer fit.

Only by being your Natural Self will you be your natural shape,

and only by being your natural shape

will you fit in the original space designed just for little old you,

and by fitting in that space do you then act in service to every other piece,

because then you support the Whole which supports all the other pieces

who are willing to be their true, natural shape--that's how it works.

Are you understanding?

All I am doing is reflecting back to you

what you already know, but may have forgotten for a little while.
That's all there is to it...you have forgotten...you know all of this.

I am telling you nothing new at all.

In fact...I will tell you a deep, dark secret:

it would be impossible for me to tell you what I am telling you

if you didn't already contain it.

Why? Because your reality is what?

A reflection!

Bashar channeled by Darryl Anka

Session Excerpt “You Are the You-Niverse.

Copyright, 1984-2004 Darryl Anka

All Rights Reserved

www.bashar.org

From the conventional romantic perspective of relationships, an argument is a failure. It is a failure because it shows a split, where the aim is for two to be as one… with a shared mind and shared thoughts.

Actually though, differences are the way that you and your relationship are strengthened. We become stronger when we are more inclusive. God, the force of life, or whatever terminology you wish to use, includes everything – the good and the bad – the more we can embrace the closer to God we become.

The more ideas, facts, people and situations that remain outside of us… the more potential there is to cause us problems.

The purpose of relationships - and everything in life is in relation to you - is to provide a continual source of growth. Eventually the two become one. Not in the sense of sharing the same mind and opinions, but through becoming inclusive enough to embrace and accept the others opinions as an equally valid choice. This then moves us towards the relationship God has with us.

The conventional view assumes that there is only one right way. So when Mr Smith thinks A is best and Mrs Smith thinks B… it appears that one must be right and the other wrong. Therefore each must argue their case for all they are worth. If they don’t then they risk being annihilated in the sense that their idea – which symbolises them – becomes consumed by the other.

If, however we allowed the possibility that both could be right… you are forced to find a more inclusive understanding that embraces both perspectives. This attitude leads to more inclusiveness and so more growth… each Partner is more respected and validated giving them the foundation to explore more deeply and continually grow.

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